I Teach What I Have Lived
Learning to listen actually saved my life. In 2005, I lost my father to suicide and for the following three and a half years, I struggled deeply with post-traumatic stress. I was emotionally numb, and I felt as though I had no purpose. But by 2009, I had come to a better place and wanted to help people like my father so they and their families didn’t have to experience what mine did.
So, I started volunteering on a crisis line and my world was completely transformed. Listening to total strangers in the darkest moments of their lives, in a way that empowered them, without judgment, fixing or offering advice awakened a sense of joy, compassion and connectedness to other humans that for years I was sure was gone forever. For a few brief hours every week, I was reminded of my humanity, my capacity for love, and that my life had purpose.
Do You Feel Stuck In A Cycle?
I went from being depressed and dealing with extreme social anxiety, to deep fulfillment, a strong sense of purpose and a thriving career making amazing money and being totally fulfilled. Then I found myself totally empty inside. I realized that I no longer believed in what I was doing. It not only brought me no fulfillment, it actually depleted me because what I was not having the impact on others and serving the way I wanted to and knew I was destined for. It wasn't the fullest expression of who I really was.
01. SHIFT FROM DREAMING TO ACHIEVING
Do you feel like you’re constantly thinking about your goals instead of accomplishing them? It’s time to start achieving your dreams today.
02. LIVE WITH PURPOSE + FULFILLMENT
The time has never been better for you to live fully, with deeper purpose, authenticity, and fulfillment. Live the life you were destined to live.
03. start improving your relationships
Struggling with communicating clearly with your partner? Start improving the depth of your relationships through listening.
04. Improve your listening skills today
Listening actually saved my life. Now, more than ever, the world is in need of better listeners who can listen and understand with empathy.
Communication - the human connection - is the key to personal and career success.
- Paul J. Meyer
Live A Life Without Regrets
Do you regularly ask yourself, What's my purpose? When will real life start?
Maybe you already have a vision; greater impact, more love, more adventure, freedom, and knowing your life matters. You picture yourself having a greater impact, influencing people, living with more passion, deeper fulfillment, and more personal freedom.
I know exactly how you feel. I've been through the very same thing, several times.
I went from being depressed and dealing with extreme social anxiety, to deep fulfillment, a strong sense of purpose and a thriving career making amazing money and being totally fulfilled.
Then I found myself totally empty inside.
I realized I no longer believed in what I was doing. It not only brought me no fulfillment, it actually depleted me because what I was not having the impact on others and serving the way I wanted to and knew I was destined for. It wasn't the fullest expression of who I really was.
“I no longer believed in what I was doing.”
I could no longer betray myself. I could no longer sell my soul for a pay cheque and a pension because I knew there was no guarantee I would reach the age where I was able to collect it.
I knew there was more to life, that this couldn't be all there was.
I quit my job, sold my house and travelled the world for a year while developing a vision for the next stage of my life. At first all I had to go on was my vision, which was blurry at best. But with each step I took, doors started to open, and as I stepped through, a whole new world and a whole new identity started to take shape.
A life of deep inner peace, contentment, purpose, abundance, joy, fulfillment and freedom.